Friday, September 10, 2010

9/10/10

Wow, saw Temple yesterday at michigan theater in downtown Ann Arbor, it was great. Posting an article about it below this post. I really learned a lot during her lecture about perception and even though I'm aware of Tyler's sensory issues, It's not always at the forefront of my mind. In the article below, it talks about a story regarding a horse and a certain colored cowboy hat. I immediately thought of Tyler and his food issues. How at 13 months we were beside oursleves with worry on easter weekend because Tyler stopped eating all baby food and would vomit at the site of his bottle (not even touching it)... we were worried we'd haev to hospitalize him...why on earth did it take me 2 days to realize all we needed to do was change the type and look of the bottle, grrr... voila, Tyler would take his bottle no problem. After the norovirus and Tyler's unwillingness to eat for 10 days!!! I started removing the plate completely and just putting food on the table, a different table, and he started to eat again and then I slowly changed back to the regular table with a plate. We still use this plan now if for some reason he eats a texture he doesn't like and begins to gag... we have to immeidately remove the food from his mouth or he will vomit or if he gags at teh site of food, we remove the plate and everything, try to guess what was causing the problem and then get a new plate (that looks totally different) add back all food except the one we thought was problemsome. Anyway.... thats what I thought about when she talked about the cowboy hat.

She also talked about different types of learners. She's a visual thinking, some people learn best with words, others are perception based. I actually think that Tyler learns in all of these ways. Pattern based thinkers are good at music and math and Tyler loves his music. I also think he has learned a lot from viewing words and matching them to pictures. I hope this is all good news for Tyler.

I was amazed at her sense of humor and wondered if it was a learned trait. People at the spectrum are so literal that I believe it's hard for them to be intentinoally funny. I wonder if it was a learned skill for her based upon her lectures. She learned why amused people and kept them engaged in discussion and therefore kept doing it in future presentations.

Ok, I am happy to report that both boys are doing great in school. Ben LOVES his new preschool but it's definetly wearing him out. I asked him the otehr day if he misses his old school and he said he never wants to see Caden Saltz again.... poor boy was being bullied and it was making his days miserable. He's very happy with his new school and so are we.

Tyler is doing graet as well. He has new teachers this year and they are co-teachign the level 1 classrooms. They are also workign to do more inclusion work with general education kids which is great for role modeling. HIs teachers have been asking me a lot of questinos about technology and TYler's ipad and they seem to be really interested in bringing more technology into the classroom which will be great for TYler. He's so motivated to use electronics and there are new communication applications coming out all of the time.

Speaking of communicatino, Tyler said "yeah" appropriately the other day according to Annie's his secondary preschool. THey asked if he wanted to sit down and eat and he said yeah. We were very happy about this. We still are trying to get his speech therpy schedule set, haev yet to figure that out. I also really want to do music therapy (one on one). It's quite expensive and have been researching ways to get flex spending to fund it. Temple really drove this home for me yesterday, how important it is for us to embrace and support Tyler's interested and possible job potentials. According to HR, his pediatrician needs ot write s cript for music therapy. Which leads to my next problem. Tried yesterday to find a new pediatrician and the one we chose was nto going to be a good fit so we went back to the drawing board. Finding someone that will follow our ideologies for healing Tyler is the issue here. We've gotten some recommendations from friends so now I just need to find the time to start calling again. So then we can get the music therapy script and then will need to find a way to schedule that into our busy days. But again, thank you Temple, for reminding me of the importance of this. Plus, it's one on one, i'm not involved like i am with speech, so I can use that time to spend some quality time with Ben :)

Ok, that's all for now.

love to all

xo







Long before Temple Grandin's life was the stuff of an Emmy-winning HBO feature film, Chrisstina Hamilton had been trying to bring her to Ann Arbor.
Hamilton, director of the
Penny W. Stamps Distinguished Speaker Series, finally got her wish of five years on Thursday night when Grandin's talk kicked off the 2010-2011 lecture season before a standing room only crowd at the Michigan Theater.
The lecture series is funded by University of Michigan School of Art & Design alum Penny Stamps. It's intended as a way to connect students with innovative artists.
Click here for the slate of Penny W. Stamps lectures for 2010-2011.
Grandin, a professor of animal science, a designer, and an author, focused her lecture on autism, animals, and the sensory-thinking approach both use to understand the world.
Beyond that work, Grandin has gained renown for designing humane slaughter facilities and a grading system to assess them.
"I want you to think about thinking," she said before the lecture. "And to understand animals, autistic people, mathematics — that requires getting away from verbal language."
Someone once asked Grandin, who is autistic and has Asperger's syndrome, what it's like to communicate with "normal" people.
"I feel like an anthropologist on Mars," she replied.
And much of her lecture focused on the failures of language to reach the autistic mind.
"Most kids, when you tell them 'don't cross the street without looking,' understand that to mean streets in general," Grandin said. "If you're going to tell your autistic child not to cross the street, you better tell them in 10 different places. They think in terms of specifics."

Temple Grandin appeared at the Michigan Theater Thursday.
Melanie Maxwell AnnArbor.com
Animals, too. Grandin once encountered a horse that was afraid of people in black hats, having been abused by a black-hat wearing cowboy in the past. People without hats and people with white hats triggered none of the fearful reactions that black hat wearers did.
"Animal fears are very specific. Their memories form in terms of pictures, smells, taste, touch," she said.
A number of parents in the audience asked Grandin to name a turning point in her life - the moment when the proverbial lightbulb clicked on.
She couldn't. Outside of the pre-age 2 "educational intervention" Grandin said is crucial for all autistic children, her progress is mostly the result of high expectations and a mother unwilling to give up on her. Doctors and educators knew a lot less about autism in the 1950s. Grandin didn't start speaking until age 4.
Now she's a professor at Colorado State University, a successful author, and the subject of a
self-titled HBO film that recently took home seven Emmy Awards. That wouldn't have been possible without having mentors at a young age, Grandin said.
"You've got to work with these (autistic) kids: mentor them, hire them," Grandin implored the crowd. "Even if the skill you can teach them is a little outdated, it gets the mind working and learning. Kids who are out spraying graffiti need to be working with real artists. They need to start thinking in terms of assignments, and learn how to finish."
That's what Grandin did. She designed her first humane slaughter facility as a teenager, and built a portfolio long before anyone paid her to do so. She credits a childhood trip to her aunt's farm with sparking that interest. That and her mother's insistence that she make the visit.
"I didn't want to go (to the farm) at first," Grandin recalled. "My mom laid out my options like this: either I could either go for two weeks or I could go for the whole summer. But I went, and I loved it. That was the spark."
Grandin spent part of her lecture speaking against the "abstractification" of the language, one of the major barriers autistic people face in mainstream society.
"When we say, for instance, that a student has behavioral issues in school, that could mean he throws spitballs, or it could mean he hit the teacher," she said. "Now, both are problems, but the degree is different, and that difference is lost when you're being so vague. We need to learn to be more specific."
"Normal" people tend to think "top-down," Grandin said - they form their theories first and let in or discard evidence to fit that framework. Autistic people and animals think "bottom-up," or take an experience-and-evidence-based approach to the world. Hence the horse with the fear of black hats.
Educational systems that only cater to top-down thinkers are failing to reach many talented young minds, Grandin said. Under-stimulated, their problems spill over into the job market. Autistic students need school systems that challenge them while playing to their strengths, Grandin said. That's what she had growing up.
"The world needs different kinds of minds working together," she said. "We need to have these unique minds doing productive work, not bagging groceries because no one knows what to do with them."